Lilac For letting go and adjusting boundaries

Lilac is a gentle, comforting essence believed to ease anxiety, calm the heart, and soothe the spirit.

I was first guided to make this essence during a time of deep bereavement. In my grief, I sat with her — this graceful little tree near my kitchen window — and felt her presence wrap around me like a soft blanket. She offered me space to truly let go — to cry, to grieve, to be held.

Her energy is supportive and nurturing, helping us connect with self-love and deep care. Her delicate flowers, which bloom briefly, remind us of the beauty in impermanence — that sometimes we must release what no longer serves us.

If you feel stuck in old patterns, rigid thoughts, or emotional habits that no longer fit, Lilac can gently encourage emotional flexibility. She can help us realign boundaries, soften our edges, and adjust gracefully to change.

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🌿 Suggested Ritual

Find a quiet space where you can sit undisturbed. Hold the bottle of Lilac Essence and place a few drops under your tongue or in a glass of water. Close your eyes and place a hand on your heart. Breathe slowly. Imagine Lilac blossoms unfurling within you, releasing anything heavy or tight.

You may wish to journal or cry, allowing her support to hold you as you release.

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✨ Affirmation

“I soften into change. I am safe to let go. I am held in love and grace.”

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💧Usage & Details

Take 3–4 drops under the tongue or in water, 3–4 times a day or as needed.
Lilac Essence may also be used in Ritual, Dieta, or as a Spirit Offering.

Available in:
🔹 10ml – £15
🔹 30ml – £30
Choose your medium: Alcohol, Glycerine, or Apple Cider Vinegar.

Each bottle comes in a muslin or organza bag, complete with instructions.

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